LET US FIND OUT OUR SELF FIRST

Human beings have certain special abilities like singing ,dancing ,painting etc.An individual wants to carry out his interest but he is influenced by society or family or parents .Parents motivate us to follow what they want us to be .Thus our talent or those special abilities are destroyed by pressure .Individuals have to accept  the codified definition of success .If it goes on none can pursue his or her dream in life .So to stop that we have to oppose our parents from our childhood . We have to stick to my own intentions .But we have to do it with great humility .We have to convince our parents that myself is going to be HAPPY with what I do because it is something of my own .It might not earn much money but it is dear to me so I must pursue it. My creative work will give me my identity .That is why pursuing one's talent is very important as that is concerned with the identity of an individual .

We have only one life to live . One day we all will die .So it becomes very important that we must enjoy what we like to do in this little span of life .If we are torn between the demand of our parents and my own desire it will not give me any happiness .So we have to avoid it .If we follow our heart and simultaneously try to follow the codes of success of society we will become hypocrites. It will make us corrupt .If we try to please our parents then we have to sacrifice our own talents .It is because if we also follow our heart we are surely corrupt ourselves as it begins with self interest and greed .It is inside us .So we have to change our heart first .When we are jealous , lazy we hate others .Never be corrupt to our own selves .It is inside our heart and brain .It gives birth to cynicism . There is no need to be angry , no need to be envious .If one can lead a life of one's own desire and be Happy , there is no need to follow success .There is no need to ever promise anything unless you are absolutely sure to carry it out .There is no need to think big or think I am superior to others .let us be humble .Success simply reflects power ,status and position .By following your heart one might not be so called successful .But there is nothing to worry because we are we all going to die .Hapiness after pursuing your talent or ability to do anything of one's choice will give fulfillment .

People do not feel it because they are afraid of loosing the so called success .We must try to be free of fear .If we continue to think of something of future it will create a sense of loosing that ,from which a sense of fear develops. Thinking about future brings fear .Our brain records the thoughts .We need these records to go through our life .Recording is memory .Our body is memory itself .Our genes know these records in our body .Thinking is part of memory .Knowledge is based on experience .Whole of our being is memory .So let us try just to exist without being judgemental.