Often a person who earns a big amount is respected in the society and such a man is also considered as a successful man .Is it really so ? Let us take two examples to illustrate the meaning of success .
A man is highly educated and working in a high rank in a reputed company . He is an egoist and self-centered person .His parents have a role indeed to make him a so called successful man in the society .They boast of their child in public .But their child when enjoys his recognition does not show much respect to his parents anymore .
Another man is working in a Shopping Mall.He does not earn much but he is very happy with his work .He never fails to be in touch with his family and friends .He has a strong bond with his parents and always pays a visit to them almost regularly to look after them .His parents are very happy for that .
After reading these situations a question that comes to my mind is - Shall we consider earning solely as a condition of success ?In life peace of mind is the ultimate thing .It comes from certain values.Unless one has those values that individual can never be considered as a successful person as he fails to achieve the good values like maintaining a good relationship with parents ,family or friends .Money can not by love or peace of mind . There are two levels to judge success- Material aspect and Emotional aspect .From material perspective money is indeed the judging factor but from emotional perspective that individual fails to achieve even respect due to the lack of good values .Education of good values is very much required not only the university degrees .But obviously a combination of these two, that is good values and degrees, will be great .So whenever we judge a person we have to consider both the factors .A rude ,egotistical person may achieve material success in life but with his death that success will die .On the other hand good values are always passed on from generation to generation and this is the key factor of life which teaches a person to be disciplined and obviously successful ultimately in life .A down to earth person with a simple heart with full of happiness and peace of mind yet have a little earning is similarly successful.
A man is highly educated and working in a high rank in a reputed company . He is an egoist and self-centered person .His parents have a role indeed to make him a so called successful man in the society .They boast of their child in public .But their child when enjoys his recognition does not show much respect to his parents anymore .
Another man is working in a Shopping Mall.He does not earn much but he is very happy with his work .He never fails to be in touch with his family and friends .He has a strong bond with his parents and always pays a visit to them almost regularly to look after them .His parents are very happy for that .
After reading these situations a question that comes to my mind is - Shall we consider earning solely as a condition of success ?In life peace of mind is the ultimate thing .It comes from certain values.Unless one has those values that individual can never be considered as a successful person as he fails to achieve the good values like maintaining a good relationship with parents ,family or friends .Money can not by love or peace of mind . There are two levels to judge success- Material aspect and Emotional aspect .From material perspective money is indeed the judging factor but from emotional perspective that individual fails to achieve even respect due to the lack of good values .Education of good values is very much required not only the university degrees .But obviously a combination of these two, that is good values and degrees, will be great .So whenever we judge a person we have to consider both the factors .A rude ,egotistical person may achieve material success in life but with his death that success will die .On the other hand good values are always passed on from generation to generation and this is the key factor of life which teaches a person to be disciplined and obviously successful ultimately in life .A down to earth person with a simple heart with full of happiness and peace of mind yet have a little earning is similarly successful.
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